Violence and Abuse

Violence and abuse in our homes and communities are serious problems. Abuse can be physical, when someone hurts your body. It can also be verbal or emotional—threats and cruel talk are abuse, too. No one, not even a family member, has the right to be violent or abusive. It’s against the law. Don’t keep it a secret. Talk to someone you trust and get help.

Get help, too, if you are the one who is violent or abusive. Change is possible, but you can’t do it alone. Act now, before you ruin someone else’s life and your own.

Signs of Child Abuse

Watch for these signs. They could indicate child abuse.

• Unexplained bruises or marks
• Trouble sleeping
• Unexplained pain, swelling or bleeding in the mouth or genitals
• Acting unusually frightened, sad or withdrawn
• Acting unusually violent or aggressive
• Copying adult sexual behavior
• No interest in school or other activities

Child Abuse

Most child abuse is done by family members. If you suspect abuse, get help right away. Teach children to tell you if something bad happens to them. Take it seriously and report it. Call Child Abuse Hotline or Child Abuse and Family Violence. In an emergency, call 9-1-1.

If You Get Abusive

Violence is never okay. But there are reasons why people get violent—social problems like unemployment and racism, and personal problems like drug abuse or growing up in an abusive home. Support groups or counseling can help. Call National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY).